2009 was definitely an eventful year in our lives! Kicking off the year as newlyweds, we enjoyed all the rites of passage as we continued to decorate our place and get into a “married” routine! Although we don’t know if routine is the accurate word to describe a couple who spent more weekends out of our condo, then in, we are certainly loving married life more and more every day and enjoying all the new adventures we get to share together!
The first of the year brought a new nephew to the Caballero clan, Joseph DiLuciano, and it also brought a newly-engaged Caballero sister, Rosemary – meaning all 10 Caballeros are taken!
Thanks to her brother, Kate secured some tickets to the Inauguration of President Obama! She was so pumped, and since Ryan was out of town for work, our friend Becca met Kate in Arlington where they walked all the way downtown for the momentous occasion. The two of them braved the cold January temps to be a part of history!
To celebrate Rosemary’s engagement, Kate’s Chicago cousins threw a party, so in February we headed to the Windy City to dress shop, party, and of course make many memories with family (Superdawg is all we need to say).
The following weekend, we headed to Kansas City for FCA’s Real Time Retreat, giving us an opportunity to enjoy some time with many of the FCA staff who work with Ryan and their spouses. We even got in a few one-on-one basketball games, with Kate dominating Ryan each time (don’t worry, Ryan whooped her in ping-pong…though it’s still under great debate as to whether that qualifies as a real sport!).
We both had some work travel in the next months – Kate to San Antonio, and Ryan to Nebraska, Kansas City, and Rochester. Booz Allen again won the Cyber Storm contract, so Kate has been churning her wargaming wheels away while Ryan continues to enjoy the challenges of being FCA’s National Director for Lacrosse. Kate still heads down to McLean, VA once a week for work, making the drive more bearable by trying to see her siblings on the way up or down.
In the Spring, we took a trip with Kate’s parents to Espana, visiting much of Northern Spain (Madrid-Segovia-Leon-Aviles-Cudillerro-Oviedo-Comillas-Santillana del Mar- Santander-and Aranda de Duero). Since we were there over the Easter holiday we were able to see some the solemn and beautiful Spanish “processiones” during Holy Week, and of course an Easter mass in Spanish. Even across the ocean we kept the tradition alive of an Easter Egg Hunt, where Ryan found quite possibly the largest Golden Egg ever! The food, drink, and culture of Espana was fabulous, and learning to pour sideria, hear Kate and her dad speak the lingo (Ryan’s vocabulary spanned no further than “chocolate y churros”), visit the picturesque fishing villages, walk the beaches, and enjoy a night at a winery, we left Spain with many breathtaking memories! And in traditional Spanish style, we had plenty of 9/10 o’clock dinner times and somehow even Mr. Caballero stayed awake!
May had us heading to a wedding in Toledo, OH, with a side-trip to visit Kate’s brother Louis and his family, right before FCA Lacrosse began gearing up for a busy summer which would take Ryan all over the map! Beginning with meetings in Kansas City, Ryan never stopped, heading to Boston for the Lacrosse National Championships, tournaments in Vail, Edgewater, Rochester, Toronto and Ocean City (MD and NJ), camps in Northern Virginia, Gettysburg, Kutztown and Salisburg, a retreat in Point Pleasant, NJ, and even some fun in Annapolis with Ryan’s summer interns! Ryan had a ton of help this summer, making Gettysburg Camp a family affair as all of the Horanburgs joined us there to help out with registration, photography, and running the camp store! So, needless to say from May till August, there wasn’t much time to breathe. But, we did get a nice break to Tampa in June for a bridal shower for Rosemary, and then Kate stayed in Florida for her best friend’s wedding in Fort Lauderdale. Somewhere in there Kate had a work trip to New York City where she was also able to spend time with her brother Matt and his family. We even found a weekend or two to head down to Virginia, visiting family and friends, and for swim instructor Ryan to help teach our niece Elizabeth the basics!
At the end of August, things quieted down some and we took a trip to celebrate our 1 year anniversary. Our first stop included a triathlon for Ryan in Fort Desoto, FL with Kate’s brother Joe and his wife Claudine. All three did great, and Ryan really got the itch to continue with hopefully more triathlons once things warm up again! The rest of the trip was really fun and relaxing (and of course too much food eating), as we enjoyed time with both of our families in Tampa and Vero Beach, as Ryan’s parents joined us in Vero for a few days. The only downside was a back injury Kate incurred, leading to a hospital trip and a few months of physical therapy! The trip culminated with a Caballero Wedding in Chicago, as Rosemary and Gus wed with plenty of Caballero Craziness had by all (Caballero girls believe McDonalds is a great pre-wedding meal). As September closed, the Caballero family expanded once again, as Anne and Colin welcomed Colin Charles into the world! We are up to 18 nieces and nephews – wow!!
The fall months weren’t quite as slow as we predicted, but we had a blast having our niece and nephew, Elizabeth and John, come spend some days with us, providing wake-up calls staring you straight in the face from the side of the bed. Then, babysitting for baby Joe, as Liz and David headed to Notre Dame for a weekend. We even got to spend a special weekend at Notre Dame with Kate’s family giving Mr. Caballero his first Notre Dame game experience. It was so enjoyable to see dad and his girls trouncing around campus as the girls detailed all their pre-game rituals, and having Mr. and Mrs. Caballero be part of it all!
We snuck in a Halloween weekend in Northern Virginia, sharing in the fun with Anne’s family of getting the kids ready in their costumes and going trick ‘or’ treating around the neighborhood. Kate even allowed herself to be “embarrassed” as she put it, and we dressed up as Waldo and Wenda for a Halloween party that night!
At the beginning of November Kate had to head to California for work, so Ryan piggy-backed on this trip and met with some FCA folks out there as well. While there we found time to enjoy Huntington, Laguna, and Newport Beach as a mini-vacation! This was Kate’s first trip to California, and being raised a Florida girl, she was hoping the water would be a bit warmer, but enjoyed the beautiful shoreline, oceanfront breakfasts, and delicious fresh markets! When we got back, it was about time for Kate to tune into her 24-hour Christmas music station, and we headed to Northern Virginia to spend Thanksgiving with Ryan’s family. All of the Horanburgs were together to celebrate the holiday with some late night Sequence games and a hike at Great Falls Park. And we can’t forget Ryan’s yearly Black Friday tradition – meeting Anne at McDonalds at 3am to chart a course! This year we traded in the traditional Turkey Trot morning run, as Reed and Nikki headed into DC with us to deliver meals and spend time with some of DCs homebound elderly – it was a huge blessing to us to have them share their lives and for us to bring them some Thanksgiving cheer!
We made it home from the Thanksgiving weekend just in time to stop and pick up the much anticipated Christmas tree (Kate was like a kid in a candy store). Our Advent season has been spent in preparation and conversation with our small group – a great group of friends we have made here in the Baltimore area, to remind us of the real reason for this wonderful season – the birth of Christ. Kate has enjoyed hosting the group, as she loves the opportunity to cook for more than two!
We will be headed to sunny Tampa to spend the holiday with Kate’s family. We are so thankful to have so many people to love and who love us. We are excited to celebrate Christmas and know that spending time with family and friends is one of the most special ways to celebrate Jesus’ birth.
For all of you that we will not be able to see over the Christmas holiday, you are in our hearts and our prayers. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all!
Love,
Kate and Ryan
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